I grew up on a sweet potato farm about ten miles outside of town, where mornings began before the sun came up and “vacation” meant heading to the county fair. My parents have dirt under their nails and more grit than anyone I’ve ever met. I used to believe that alone was enough for people to respect us.
Then I got accepted into a fancy scholarship program at a private high school in the city. It was supposed to be my big break. But on the very first day, I walked into homeroom wearing jeans that still faintly smelled like the barn, and this girl with a glossy ponytail whispered, “Ew. Do you live on a farm or something?”
I didn’t say a word. Just sat down and kept my head low. I told myself I was overthinking it. But the comments kept coming. “What kind of shoes are those?” “Wait—you don’t have WiFi at home?” One guy even asked if I drove a tractor to school.
I stayed quiet, studied hard, and never mentioned where I came from. But inside, I hated how ashamed I felt. Because back home, I’m not “that farm girl.” I’m Mele. I can patch a tire, wrangle chickens, and sell produce like a pro. My parents built something real with their hands. Why did I feel the need to hide that?
Everything shifted during a school fundraiser. Everyone was asked to bring something from home to sell. Most kids brought boxed cookies or crafts their nannies helped them make. I brought six sweet potato pies—our family’s recipe. They sold out in twenty minutes.
That’s when Ms. Bell, the guidance counselor, pulled me aside to say something I’ll never forget. But before she could finish, someone unexpected walked up—someone I never thought would talk to me.
It was Izan. The guy everyone liked. Not because he was loud or showy—he just had a calm, confident presence. His dad was on the school board, his sneakers were always spotless, and somehow, he remembered everyone’s name. Including mine.
“Hey, Mele,” he said, eyeing the empty pie plates. “Did you really make those yourself?”
I nodded, unsure what he was getting at.
He grinned. “Think I could get one for my mom? She loves anything sweet potato.”
I think I blinked twice before managing, “Uh, yeah, sure. I can bring one Monday.”
Ms. Bell gave me this little smile that said, Told you so, then added, “I was just saying—this pie? It’s part of who you are. You should be proud to share more of that.”
That night, I stayed up late thinking. Not about Izan—but about all the times I’d hidden where I came from, thinking it made me smaller. What if it made me stronger?
So on Monday, I didn’t just bring a pie. I brought flyers. I came up with a name—Mele’s Roots—and passed out slips that read: Farm-to-table pies, fresh every Friday. Ask about seasonal flavors. I figured maybe a few kids would be curious.
By the end of lunch, I had twelve pre-orders and a DM from someone named Zuri asking if I could cater their grandma’s birthday party.
From there, things took off. Teachers started asking if I could make mini pies for staff meetings. One girl even offered to trade me a designer jacket for three pies. (I said no. Respectfully. It was ugly.)
But what really blew me away was when Izan messaged me a photo of his mom, mid-bite, eyes wide. The caption said: She says this is better than her sister’s—and that’s a big deal.
I laughed out loud. My dad looked up and asked, “That a good thing or a bad thing?”
“Very good,” I said. “I think we might be expanding.”
Every Thursday after my homework, we started baking together—sometimes pies, sometimes biscuits or bread. I learned more about our family’s recipes than I ever had. And I began weaving those stories into school essays and presentations—about the land, my grandparents, and how we pushed through the drought years.
And slowly, people began to listen.
The girl with the glossy ponytail? She asked for a recipe. I gave her a simplified version—no way she’s using a wood-fired oven—but it felt good.
Senior year, for our final project on something that shaped our identity, I created a documentary-style video about our farm. I filmed my mom washing carrots in a bucket, my dad feeding the dogs bread crusts, and ended it with a shot of me at the county fair, standing beside my little pie stall under a hand-painted sign.
When they played it in front of the whole school, I was terrified. I stared at the floor the entire time. But when it ended, the room erupted in applause. Loud. A few people even stood.
Afterward, Izan came over and gave me a side hug. “Told you your story mattered.”
I smiled. “Took me a while to believe it.”
The truth is, I used to think people wouldn’t respect me if they knew where I came from. But now I know—you teach people how to see you. When you own your story, it becomes your power—not your shame.
So yeah—I’m a farmer’s daughter. And that doesn’t make me less.
It makes me rooted.
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